Making A Difference To You

What is currently impossible to do which, if it were possible, would change everything? What is the most important decision you are facing and what keeps you from making it?

Sometimes we forget to ask ourselves the crucial questions.

It may be because we know that it’s going to be challenging to face up to it, and sometimes it’s because we don’t know what question to ask because we are so far in it that we can’t see the wood for the trees.

What is it going to take to get you from where you are now, to where you want to be, to get absolute clarity about what you want, to know exactly what your intention is, and to be really clear about what choices or options are available to you?

Take a nice big sheet of paper and some coloured pens, and start writing. Write out some of the things that you really want, some of the other choices you have, and notice that if you were to have these things, what this would do for you. What difference would it make? Then write down what’s important to you about that.

What are you willing to give up to accomplish your goal?

Sometimes we fall prey to wishful thinking in that we wish for things we don’t really want because we haven’t considered or are not prepared to do the hard yards to get them.

Be aware that where your focus goes, your energy flows. This means that whatever you focus on will take most of your attention, so make sure it’s something worthwhile. Be aware of what you’re wishing for and how that will impact on yourself, your friends, your family, your work and every aspect of your life and who you are.

Ask yourself: what is currently impossible to do which, if it were possible, would change everything?

Is that everything, exactly what you want?